Time for an update and a little more reality. I will make this simple and in plain english. If you live out of my country, or even in another province and aren't willing to relocate then don't contact me or waste my time or yours. I don't do webcam and don't have ump hours to spend wasting online. I work for a living and don't deal in BS. To my knowledge there are only 20,000 people in the world who seek this very special sort of relationship. I am the only woman in my immediate area. Very few men and even the ones who are in my area are limited in experience, knowledge of what a TRUE NURSING relationship entails and what is required of both people. Adult Nursing is exactly what is says. Nursing, Breastfeeding, my lifemate suckling on my breasts and drawing milk from me. This is something that I have always enjoyed and it is not only a physical or sexual experience for me but something that I find very fulfilling to me emotionally and mentally. Those people that truly crave and want this in their life understand what I am talking about and know what I mean. Those that don't are simply curious, please go and do some research. This is a lifestyle, it isn't like a fetish or kink, which the meaning of those two words are the same. It isn't something that is simply there and then you pick it up or feel like doing it because it is a kink. It is TRULY a lifestyle and one that is lived daily with a very special per. This is not just something of a sexual nature and to those who think it is No it isn't. I am so open minded in so many ways. I am me but I don't just open myself up to share myself, I am not a flavor of the night nor a one night trial. Just because I am on this site doesn't mean that I am fodder or an easy lay. I am not a passover and I am not looking for something inconsequential or brief. This may be a sexual dating site but there is a big difference to me between having sex and making love. SEX is sex. Making love and having a full understanding of your special per is a whole different experience all together. For those of you that simply want sex, don't keep reading and don't contact me please, there are many other people here who are looking for the one time or occasional connection. I am not one of those people. I don't judge anyone on their choices but I am just not like that. I am seeking a real connection with someone and hopeful that someday I might meet that per. I have my own kinks and am exploring this. I will add those in another area. I can and will be monogamous with the right per, but am not adverse to bisexuality or exploring different situations. As long as there is honesty and truth. I cannot abide nor tolerant liars, hypocrites, or a double standard. I am a switch, everything is equal. I don't dominate you and you don't dominate me. I don't do well with people telling me what to do in sexual atmosphere, I have to be able to be me and yes I am a tease with a little brat thrown in sometimes. I am everything all over the spectrum. I won't consider someone who is currently attached or married and wanting to cheat on their spouse or partner. I will not partake of a DRAMA situation in which my partner is attached and CHEATING on his partner. I already do have an occasional play friend who is bisexual and in an open marriage. We are good friends and he does come to visit the odd occasion. His partner is fully aware of the situation and we just both have needs. She is aware of me and is agreeable to him coming to visit me, nothing is hidden and nobody is being hurt. If he were to tell me she is uncomfortable or doesn't want he and I to continue then I would totally respect this. If I meet the right per and this was upsetting to them, I would and can be monogamous. I prefer not to be the other woman who is going to be the cause of pain to another and don't value that sort of dishonesty in others. I have a radar for that sort of crap and really don't get off on it. Be real or stay the fuck home I don't do Vanilla. So boring, get it up, get on, don't mess my hair do. Gee maybe I should paint the roof beige. So selfish and so boring. Not to be rude, a quickie is awesome if you're on a lunch break but a five minute session of everything being about just you just doesn't do it for me. Rather really not ever, been there and didn't like it. Hi, HOOOOW ya doin lol. Sorry for the book and eyestrain but there some of it is in a nutshell. PS. Just a foot note, I am a squirter. I don't do the mommy thing, I don't deal with scat or watersports. I will not fuck your and yes someone did ask me to do that. Some boundaries are just not to be crossed and I will not go there.