Despite the fact that I'm here trolling for hook-ups on an adult sex site (well, maybe that's not so weird to you, since you're here too), I'm actually a pretty normal guy -- don't drink to excess, or smoke or have any seriously bad habits except for a few cups of coffee and a bit of chocolate every day which I plan to give up eventually (well, maybe not the chocolate LOL ). I keep very busy, manage an apartment complex part time and work on my own entrepreneurial ventures the rest of the time. I was born and raised in the Southwest but have been living in the Pacific Northwest for 20 years now. I love the desert but living in 90+ degree heat for four months out of the year is just NOT my cup of tea. The Pacific Northwest weather agrees with me, I plan to make this my home base for a long, long time. My two greatest loves other than, of course, attractive and intelligent women, are writing and music. I used to be an aspiring professional musician but between school and work I could never seem to find the time to devote to it enough to become professional. I've played guitar, bass, drums & keyboards at one time or another, but my favorite is the flute. I try to practice every day, and now my life is settling down to the point where I can really focus on it and I'm just loving it. One of my long-term goals is to go back to school and finish my degree in the next couple of years. I have about 35 credits left to complete for either a physics or a math degree so in my spare time I'm working on getting ready to go back to school. After that I plan to become a free-lance science writer or possibly go into education, which of course there's not a lot of money in but being self-employed I have a bit more freedom to pursue things for reas other than just money. Physically I think I'm in pretty good shape, I'm 6'1" and about 225. I try to work out at the gym every day, and enjoy both weights and cardio training so I'm pretty balanced in that regard. Definitely not interested in having huge muscles but rather just being in excellent health and able to get done all the things I want to do. I like to think I'm a pretty naturally romantic guy, especially when I'm playing the piano LOL . I love doing romantic things like candlelight dinners, etc. with the right per and am not looking for mindless recreational sex with just anyone. Want to travel someday because the world fascinates me, and hope find someone who understands partnership and wants to accompany me in pursuing the many, many things in life we're both passionate about.

My Ideal Person BUNNY BOILERS NEED NOT APPLY!!!

Seriously, just reasonably "normal" people that are of course drama and hang-up free! Being healthy and having a positive attitude are more important than age, race and whether or not you're Ken and Barbie. Physically I'm irresistibly attracted to large, dark, voluptuous Earth-Mother types, so a little extra (or a lot) of padding is fine as long as it's reasonably proportionate and you like yourself.

So if you're looking for an excellent friend with benefits who's open to something more, let's chat! I'm clean, disease-free and always play safe. And I promise I won't bite...unless you're into that sort of thing! LOL